Feminist Life Coach and Organisational Process Facilitator

Shamillah Wilson

I am a feminist and social justice life coach. I support activists and leaders to navigate the internal (personal) and external complexities they face. My goal is to help my clients achieve fulfilment and wellbeing as they work to transform our world into a just one. Whether you are an entrepreneur, activist or changemaker, I am here to work with you to achieve greater fulfilment, freedom and success.

1-on-1 Coaching

Organisational process work

Wellbeing support
Leadership development

Resources for you

The social justice approach I follow provides a holistic coaching model that examines our complex realities and then taps into our resourcefulness in ways that can effect small (and sometimes big) changes-for-good internally and in the systems we experience. Each month we look at a different theme to explore together, and share thoughts and resources to help us stay grounded in purpose and intentional in our activism.

This month we focus on

Purpose and Boundaries

Reaffirming boundaries takes time

I found myself unknowingly neglecting my boundaries, and it took a while before I realised it. I felt guilty about pushing back because I wanted to be helpful – a team player. When I decided to take a stand for myself and re-center my personal values, I found that my insecurities may have been what was holding me back.

Read more about the lessons I learned and get tips on how to reaffirm your boundaries if you are in a similar situation. Join the discussion on social media:

“Life will continue to present you with situations that might trigger your insecurities. This may cause you to blur or erode your boundaries. When this happens, take the necessary actions to restore your confidence, wellbeing, and peace of mind.”

— Shamillah Wilson

Thinking of a career transition?

Feeling stuck at work? That’s a red flag. But you’re not alone.

Transitions: Take a Leap & Rewrite Your Future guides you through reflective exercises and a thoughtful programme, allowing you to explore new possibilities at your own pace. Buy it on my website, get it in your inbox, start when you’re ready. No rush, just support.

Ikigai space

Ikigai: The quiet power of a life with purpose

I was pleased to be reminded about the Japanese tradition of Ikigai – a tradition that dates back over a thousand years, and is yet so entirely relevant for the ways we live today.

Have a read through the article written by my colleague Lorelle Bell?

Real life conversations podcast
Allowing things that needed boundaries

Take a Leap and Rewrite Your Future – A Practical Guide to Career Transition

Some chapter titles in the book:

How do you know you are ready for a career transition
Face your fears
Begin with the end in mind
Do your research
Career transition roadmap
The power of career experiments
Learning from setbacks

Leading Change from Within Academy

The goal of the Leading Change from Within Academy is to nuture a community of activists, practitioners, changemakers and seekers looking to foster resilience and impact social change in the world. We want to co-create and understand the ways our community needs us to show up.

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What you can expect working with me

I love what I do. I am passionate about unleashing the power and potential in myself and others.

My coaching, and leadership and organisational development, reflect my greatest passions – contributing to a just world and accompanying people on their journeys towards fulfilment. I draw on my own extensive experiences in social justice, leadership development, activism, social entrepreneurship, women’s rights and youth development.

I am curious about what it means to be in this world and how we can connect to a deep inner calling to live our lives with intention and achieve change, not only for the world but for ourselves. As I journey through life figuring this out, I am deeply guided by my politics of equity and justice, and my desire for personal joy, fulfilment and freedom. In other words, I believe we can have it all!

Working with me will help you achieve personal transformation, a new sense of wellbeing, and a plan to realise your goals.

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Personal transformation and wellbeing

My coaching is grounded in understanding context and the systems that affect us. It is an accompanied intimate journey with you.

Unlock your inner wisdom.

Learn to trust yourself.

Uncover your deepest desires.
Activate powerful distinctions that will transform your life.

Leadership development

My work in leadership development supports you to lead from the inside out.

Understand your leadership blueprint.
Explore constraints.

Surface your leadership beliefs and behaviours.

Develop skills and tools for social justice leadership.

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Organisational process work

My work with organisations involves exploring, designing and facilitating conversations that support organisations to become caring and just. Some of this work includes:

Courageous conversations.

Building collective trust.

Team building and strengthening.

Strategy development and learning.

Zanelle Thabede Vilakati
Working with Shamillah helped me prioritise my wellbeing and take steps to where I desire to be when it comes to personal development and self-appreciation.
Zanelle Thabede Vilakati
Co-Founder Women Working Together Initiative, Swaziland
Working with Shamillah helped me prioritise my wellbeing and take steps to where I desire to be when it comes to personal development and self-appreciation.
Zanelle Thabede Vilakati
Zanelle Thabede Vilakati
Co-Founder Women Working Together Initiative, Swaziland
Connie Nawaigo
The course on Leading From Within allowed me to give myself a chance to return to me. It was time to embrace that brokenness and return to myself.
Connie Nawaigo
Zhuwarara LLB (MUK) LLM (UZ)
The course on Leading From Within allowed me to give myself a chance to return to me. It was time to embrace that brokenness and return to myself.
Connie Nawaigo
Connie Nawaigo
Zhuwarara LLB (MUK) LLM (UZ)
Brian Shalumwa
Shamillah has helped me to believe that anything is possible. She helped me to see that (if) I am clear about what I want, and dedicate myself to that with consistency and commitment, then I could be content that I am doing what I need to for my life.
Brian Shalumwa
Entrepreneur, Zambia
Shamillah has helped me to believe that anything is possible. She helped me to see that (if) I am clear about what I want, and dedicate myself to that with consistency and commitment, then I could be content that I am doing what I need to for my life.
Brian Shalumwa
Brian Shalumwa
Entrepreneur, Zambia
Lesley Ann Foster
Shamillah is an excellent coach because she brings a depth of knowledge and experience to the coaching process, having walked a journey similar to the people she coaches.
Lesley Ann Foster
CEO, Masimanyane Women’s Rights International
Shamillah is an excellent coach because she brings a depth of knowledge and experience to the coaching process, having walked a journey similar to the people she coaches.
Lesley Ann Foster
Lesley Ann Foster
CEO, Masimanyane Women’s Rights International
Alice Kanengoni
Shamillah supported me in thinking through my ‘next big move’ in a manner that gave me clarity and more confidence in what I have to offer the world … gently but firmly holding the space for me to gain clarity and the resolve to explore new ways of being.
Alice Kanengoni
Life Coach and Women’s Rights Program Manager, OSISA
Shamillah supported me in thinking through my ‘next big move’ in a manner that gave me clarity and more confidence in what I have to offer the world … gently but firmly holding the space for me to gain clarity and the resolve to explore new ways of being.
Alice Kanengoni
Alice Kanengoni
Life Coach and Women’s Rights Program Manager, OSISA

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